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Tom left me last June and I filed for divorce at the end of last year. There's probably a lot of story in there that I could go into, but the short version, from my point of view: Tom freaked out because he wanted to keep acting like we were 25, and I wanted to be a grown up.

If you really want to read the whole saga, email me and I might let you read the painful protected entries detailing the whole thing in gory stream-of-consciousness. Otherwise, rest assured that I'm fine and am dealing with it quite well. I just thought it was probably time to let the internet friends at large know about the big life change.

Date: 2008-01-09 12:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I'm going through something similar, although nobody's left anybody. Maybe I can learn from your experience.

Date: 2008-01-09 12:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
i know this may sound strange but congratulations to you for knowing what you want and not being afraid of it. what you've been through has to be damn tough. you're a brave lady. yet another reason for me to be in awe of you. :) i hope 2008 is a year that finds you in a much happier healthier place!

Date: 2008-01-09 04:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
So does this mean you're single now?

Date: 2008-01-09 04:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Oh, uh, hey there. Glad you're doing okay.

Date: 2008-01-09 06:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Uh...Fuck. I got nothin.

Well, ok, Ive got somethin. If you need anything, let me know, and I'll do my best to help. Im glad to see you dealing with it well.

Date: 2008-01-09 07:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Sorry to hear it. Glad to hear you're bearing up well.

Date: 2008-01-09 10:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I'd seen you alluding to it in Aaron's LJ, but didn't want to pry.

Very sorry.

Date: 2008-01-09 10:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]

Sorry to hear you lost your marriage, but good to hear that you're dealing well, and that you know who you are and what you want in the first place.

Date: 2008-01-09 09:49 pm (UTC)

Date: 2008-01-09 03:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Brave girl. Well done. I hope the future holds all kinds of happiness for you.

Date: 2008-01-09 09:45 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I'm so sorry you have to got through this.

Date: 2008-01-09 09:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
That was me, being not logged in.

Date: 2008-01-13 07:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Uh, good? I dunno. I'm not sure there's an expressible sentiment here. In any case, I'm glad you're doing well.

Date: 2008-01-19 03:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Holy crap. I'm sorry; that really sucks. Even if you're dealing well, and I'm glad to hear that you are, that is indeed a big life change, and I wish you well while you're working though it.

Date: 2008-02-12 12:05 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] zyrya
I'm so sorry, sweetie. I'm so sorry.

Date: 2008-02-12 10:08 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] genarti
I'm so sorry.

I'm glad you're dealing with it well. If it's the best and healthiest thing for you, or for you both -- then it is, and what you need to do is what you need to do.

But I'm still so sorry you have to deal with all this.
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